Theme: Empathy
Scripture: Hebrews 2:18 The New Revised Standard Version
Because he himself was tested by what he suffered, he is able to help those who are being tested.
Devotional:
"Lean on me, Dawnn, lean on me."
I couldn't catch my breath. The tears gathered in my eyes prevented me from being able to see who was talking, but I knew and was keenly aware that my spouse was whispering those words to me as we stood waiting to enter the sanctuary for my brother's celebration of life after he died.
This was one of the hardest times of my life. My brother, one of my closest friends despite our nine-year age difference was no longer with us. I wasn't quite sure that my legs would continue to prop me up or that I had the strength to walk the aisle to sit down.
Lean on me. These words offer me comfort even now when I am nearly two years removed from this day. For some, the words lean on me is a command. It is a promise that even if you *can't stand, you are supported. And in a moment of fear, disorientation, or extreme grief, the promise of support is necessary.
As an empath, or one who feels deeply the pain of others, I am often the one whispering to another, "lean on me." Honestly, as many times as I have said it, I don't think I have ever estimated the impact of what hearing those words could be for someone. Until I heard them that day.
Lean on me. How many times do you think we are prompted by Spirit to "lean on me" and we don't? And it makes some sense actually. It is difficult to surrender, lean in or lean on anything or anyone. Some of us lead such a life of independence that the idea of "leaning on someone," feeling supported in the weak times, or receiving the promise of support feels foreign.
As I sit in reflection today, mostly reflecting about the things happening in my personal orbit; pondering the things I am discerning and wondering where God is in it all, I am compelled to lean on the folks who have most recently beckoned me toward them. I asked God to reveal me to me in this Lenten season. And I have seen some of the areas where my faith is challenged, weak even and God is asking me to "lean." More, God has sent people to me who have extended an invitation for me to lean.
Admittedly, for my type A, first born, exceptional and gifted child brain, the command to "lean on me" feels scary. I can figure things out myself because I have been doing it for years. I can. And still God speaks...
Lean on me.
Recalling how safe and supported I felt when my spouse whispered those words two years ago, I am compelled to try (God) again.
I think I will.
Prayer:
God, help me to lean on you. Call me toward it one more time, please. Remind me that I am safe, supported, and secure if I would only lean. And when I forget to lean, remind me quickly. Bring to my remembrance the comfort I feel when I lean. Help me to see where I could stand to "lean on" even more. I trust you, God.
Reflection Questions:
In what areas are *you being invited to lean in? What has God asked you to lay down and trust God for support? Are you the person that is often leaned on? How has someone's support and invitation to "lean on me" impacted you?
